Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Friday, June 24, 2011

Fragile Ties

Fragile Ties

By Teri VanL.ieshout
2/14/2005
For my husband, Josh, with love
Spider’s web
And silken thread
Soft and fragile
They can break with a whisper
Or in woven strength
Hold like girders of steel.
Our hearts are bound
In the magical thread
Of trust, hope, honesty
Patience, forgiveness,
Laughter, resilient warmth
And compassion.
Love

In the cocoon of marriage
Is our shelter
Our strength
And our foremost labor.
To tend to these fragile ties
That can break in isolation
Or, in union,
Bear the insurmountable weight of the world,
To tend to these fragile ties
Is a foundation
For a rich life
Shared with each other,
Our children,
And our children’s children,
Building a legacy
That can span generations
Made first of intimate love,
Blossoming into creative service
That can go far beyond
Our individual lives
To benefit the world.
I give you my affection
My respect, my support,
My love
The best of me
To share in this tender union
That is our life together
And is a reflection of the Eternal
So gently placed
In the silken framework
Of our hearts.

I wrote this for Josh a few years ago. And back then, I didn’t know how much we’d face together even in 5 short years. As we grow in our marriage, I can say the love grows stronger and the respect grows deeper. My husband loves well, even when I’m far from perfect. And I hope I reflect that back to him, too. Truly blessed. I love you so much, Josh. You’re the best!!

Fecund Offering (a revision)

By Teri VanLieshout
original 3/5/97, this version 1/25/11

Love is not
       like magnified
It is showing appreciation
     for life
       through commitment
    to others
           and shared vision of what is good

Experiencing joy
   comes with
     sharing
         life’s good work
                                        together
Hard work
   strengthens calm

Peace comes
  in the wake
     of a steady push forward
 
Comfort
   is satisfaction
     in knowing you’ve done your best
Souls are kept
   by passing love on,
     sharing in the triumphs and pitfalls of life

      fecund offering